*Insert devil face emoji*
That ended in OP should do the most honest thing possible. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down. Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. Hello, my boyfriend is in his second year of residency for Emergency Medicine, and we live together. I love this post and this perspective.
By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. When you work this hard, you need to play hard. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well. I'll keep digging through it, but there's a lot there and I'd like some suggestions to narrow my search. My boyfriend and I moved in together when he started his fellowship last year. I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. From reading the above posts from previous posters, please keep in mind that while it helps to read and learn from each others' experiences as we are all in the same boat -- we must also make the distinction between someone's occupation and their personality or character.